Why Real Love Requries Honesty

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A links Will Easily get you out of a scrape, and yet, and Strangely emploi, rapture possessive You When You Have taken The scrape and left out The Lie. ~ Charles Edward Montague, Disenchantment

DR. LISA LOVE REFLECTIONS

Recently, I picked up a great book, Act Like A Lady, Think Like a Man by Steve Harvey. Overall, I love the book EXCEPT one part of it Gave me pause and made me Reflect. It Was in the chapter about "Why Men Cheat" on Their wives, girlfriends, etc.. Harvey's basic answers are: 1) They Can. 2) Think Theys Theys Can Get Away With It. 3) He Has not Become Who He Wants and Needs to Be Found Gold Who Truly He Wants. 4) What's Happening at Home Is not Like it Used Happening TB 5) There's Always a Woman Out There Willing to Cheat With Him. And, ultimately he Explains The Man Has not Got His Priorities Straight Especially in real Having a Meaningful and Spiritual Practice in His Life.

Ok So far, so good. And, I aussi What AGREEMENT WITH Harvey says regarding WHY Man Is Able To Get Away With His cheating and lying Behavior With The Women He Is With. One Reason cette Happens Harvey explain (using my paraphraze of What he says now not historical exact words) "any woman IS Because He Is With High Enough Has not set standards in respect to Her Life and love herself Enough to See What is going on right in front of Her and take a stand about it. Basically she collude in The Notion That denial is good for you. After all, "What You Do not Know Will not Hurt You." And, sincere Her denial lets get HIM Away With What he wants to, he is happy to join in on The Denial Party With Her. Purpose, denial is Not good for you and it feeds one of my four major myths I love in my Chat Real Love Attracting race - love is blind. Wrong! Real love actually Requires 20 to 20 vision Because You only know how to really love yourself and others When You are seeing What You Need to See Clearly.

Which Is Why When I read this in Harvey's book I Decided I Could not disagree more. He says if a woman starts to catch it to a man's cheating and lying Behavior and starts to ask questions a man IS going to just do more of history and lying Denying game. Why? Harvey Says Men Will Do This "if we care about you. Goal, if not - if a man Does not see you fitting Into His Life Plan - He Will not Even Bother With All Of The wraps up. "WHOA! Come on, Steve! I know The Rest of your book says aussi That a man really loves a Woman Who Will not cheat, let's clear aim this up right now! Le't not make it SEEM like somebody IS cheating and hiding the Truth from Someone out of love. No way, no how!

So, Why Do We really bind? Plain and simple We're afraid. Period. Why Are We Afraid? We do not love gold Ourselves The People Around Us Enough To live in truth. And, real love Requires the Truth. Some blunt rude not make people feel stupid and horrible version of truth. Purpose, truth nonetheless! And, if you want proof of Who Has The Most Loving Relationships Between Them going on? Well, it's Between People Who Can Live In Truth completely. Theys Love and Respect Each Other So Much They Want to Be With Them Honest. THEY care about not hurting 'em. THEY care about Being loved and in return for RespectED Who They Are Flaws And All. And, They want a partner Who Can Hear the truth and help bring it all Into the realm of consciousness in a loving way and heal "any fear in The Realm of Love. That means specified in the couple was more related to Each Other, The More Actually THEY are in fear of Each Other, Which Means Love isn't really very present at all.

Now, Why Do We refuse to live in truth? It's simple. We are thinking more about Ourselves and coming from our egos. We Simply Do not Want to Have to Face the Consequences of What we are doing and Be Forced to Change Our Behaviors hurtful. We do not want to feel bad about Ourselves by HAVING to see clearly "What is really going on. However, to sha.