MAIN QUOTE
"We want to condamner are self-love; goal What We Really Mean To Condemn IS Contrary to self-love. It Is That mixture of selfishness and self-Hate That Permanently pursuer us, That Prevents us from loving Others, And That prohibita Us From Losing Ourselves. "~ Paul Valery, French Poet 1871 - 1945
DR. LISA LOVE REFLECTIONS
As a counselor I Have Told Often people optometrist Need to Learn to Love Themselves. Yet, while this Saying To Others, I Have taken at times to pause and ask myself Reflect, "What does That really mean? How do we know the Difference Between a self-love and love is selfish? And, What Can We Do to Love Ourselves Practically In The Right Way? "The Quota Above Holds Perhaps a clue, Because I Believe true love fills us self Enough With joy, peace, and love that o Desire to Be Loving Human Beings grows. Because cette We Want to express more empathy, compassion, and understanding Towards Other. Selfish Love Does The Contrary. It increaser o sense of self-loathing and disdain or anger o Towards Other. It causes us to act increasingly In Our Own Best Interest Without considering The Interest of Others. It causes us to want to sacrifice Others Needs and desires in service to Our Own, INSTEAD of the Other Way Around. However, it causes us to self-destruct Through a number of Behavior That May temporairement feel good, THEY ultimately lead to shutting down To The Of Our hearts and spiral us Downward Into Increased self-loathing and self-Reproach.
How then do we love Ourselves In The Right Way? By first and foremost learning what love is. Then, by insisting That We Feed Ourselves With That Love. This Is best done by Finding People Who Know How to Love. We Learn From Them How to Adopt loving mindsets, feelings, and Behavior. And, It Is done by setting Boundaries are people Who do not know how to promote The Greatest level of love in us. Because When We Truly Have That Kind of Love in Our Lives we are increasingly a blessing To Others. Which Is Why Real Love Requires That We Love Ourselves In The Right Way, So We Can Have the strength to love, to love The Wisdom, & the energy to Love Those Who Need Our Love The Most.
Blessings,
Dr. Lisa Love
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